I am not making this up. J the homebuild was in June, J the public speaker in July, and the two J’s in January– see other post.
But this J was a good writer, who had gone from 5M to near zero and knew what life was. He had been a victim of one of the worser forms of abuse, so needed help focusing his already in place messages, web identity, and contacts.
I mapped his 2,200 Facebook friends. I said look, this is not meant to be important or NOT important.
But if you are going to be on FB, you need to know who the 220 are who really count, and find the 44 among THOSE whose life you can change or impact, and they you.
He has lots of contacts in broadcast, mortgage finance, progressive Christianity, healing and recovery, sports and regional. Also recently married a second time. Blessings!
I also carefully surveyed his two year old blog, of some 98 posts, and had him ready to evaluate the better 20% of that, to focus his message.
He aspires to public speaking more, and we talk about videos, networking, unifying his blog/webpage to Facebook to YouTube to SoundCloud. I can tell you……… But how to do it??
My vision is, for a structured approach to business and personal effectiveness for him, THAT fits him, not me. I can try to replicate me, but its the wrong way. How to help someone get more of the better them? Yet also be a second set of eyes, on his values, goals, decisions, and clarifying messages and pathways. That is the work we are doing now. Ongoing engagement for dkSp’s.